Cleverific Life: Cofounder 1-1s

Tu Pham and I started working together in 2009. If you’re ambitious and work hard, I feel like you naturally gravitate towards people with the same outlook. At first, it was just one-off freelance projects where if I needed a designer, she was the first call; if she needed a dev, I was hers. The classic designer-developer dynamic duo.
Over the years, we’ve established a rhythm and process that have ensured our longevity and continued collaboration. One of the most important is our weekly 1-1s.
Every Wednesday morning at 8am, you’ll find us at Handlebar Coffee Roasters in downtown Santa Barbara. Tu orders an oat latte and never finishes her pastry. I crush an oat cortado and then a regular coffee for good measure.
We have meandering conversations about our lives, the world, and, of course, every aspect of our business. We come prepared and leave with todos and decisions that we hold each other accountable for.
There is otherwise no agenda. Depending on what’s been going on, our 1-1 can last from one to three hours. Sometimes we leave early only to hop on Zoom so that we can get right to the code or figma.
Could we be more efficient? Get through our agenda in a more structured way? Probably. It’s one thing to be efficient with your team and ICs. But that’s not the point of this meeting. The point is to be on the same page.
Cofounder relationships are the number one reason why startups fail. When the relationship falls apart, the business falls apart. One aspect of having a great cofounder is how you can motivate each other to do the work.
The journey, at times, feels Sisyphean. But great cofounders energize and lift each other up. Not by doing the work for you or by being your therapist, but by helping to clear the uncertainty inherent in charting any new path forward.